Confusion, Perfection, and Christianity's "S" Word

* I wrote this article for the haystack.tv blog and am just reposting it here! You also read the post at http://www.thehaystack.tv/confusion-perfection-and-christianitys-s-word/ “But sometimes I just don’t know how much I’m supposed to do and how much God’s just going to do!” I was genuinely complaining to a friend because I was genuinely frustrated. I mean yeah, I understood the whole salvation by grace thing – in concept at least – but I also knew that after this accepting Jesus’ “justification” thing came this other thing: Sanctification. Oh that “s” word… I’d heard it described as the work of a lifetime – the process where after the “come as you are” saved but grace event, we are to change, to struggle, to fight sin, to eventually become “perfect?” “Look Shell, they say we’re saved by grace, but you know that’s not all. After that you’re supposed to dress a certain way, give up certain things, become a vegetarian…. So whatever. I guess I’m going to hel...