From March 29, 2015 “To be honest, I really like being your friend and I think you’re great, but I don’t really expect much from you. I’m sorry….” The statement could have offended me, but actually it didn't. Because to tell the truth, I didn’t expect much either. I too have been disappointed a lot of times. Call it the results of having to say goodbye too many times, difficult past experiences, or whatever, but as a result, I also find myself expecting little out of my friendships. “Expectation is the root of all heartache,” said William Shakespeare. And it makes so much sense. Don’t expect much = don’t get disappointed much. Right? But it's not really true. Whether we try to manage our expectations or not, something inside us still hopes, and something inside us is still disappointed. Even if we say, "I knew this would happen," it still hurts. No, just managing expe...
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